当你认为被抛弃的时候，受损失的其实是对方

When someone abandons you, it is him that gets loss because he lost someone who truly loves him but you just lost one who doesn't love you. 当你认为被抛弃的时候，受损失的其实是对方：因为他失去了一个真正喜欢他的人，而你只不过少了一个不喜欢你的人。